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What we get wrong about forgiveness – a counseling professor unpacks the difference between letting go and making up
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Take stock of your feelings, and the other person's, before you decide what kind of forgiveness to offer.
Two in five Americans have fought with a family member about politics, according to a 2024 study by the American Psychiatric Association. One in five have become estranged over controversial issues, and the same percentage has “blocked a family member on social media or skipped a family event” due to disagreements. Difficulty working through conflict with those close to us can cause irreparable harm to families and relationships.